Sindikudziwa ngati makolo apeza kuti mwana akafika zaka 2, mwadzidzidzi amakhala ndi chidwi ndi zofukula.Makamaka, mnyamatayo sangathe kuyang'ana pa kusewera masewera nthawi wamba, koma akakumana ndi wofukula ntchito pamsewu, mphindi 20 kuyang'ana sikokwanira.Osati zokhazo, komanso makanda amakonda zoseweretsa zamagalimoto zama engineering monga zofukula.Ngati makolo atawafunsa zomwe akufuna kuchita akadzakula, amatha kupeza yankho la "excavator driver".
N’chifukwa chiyani makanda padziko lonse lapansi akuwoneka kuti amakonda zofukula?Pamalo opangira mafuta kumapeto kwa sabata ino, mkonzi adzalankhula ndi makolo za chidziwitso chochepa cha "munthu wamkulu".Wokumba angathandizenso makolo kumvetsa bwino mmene mwanayo alili.
N'chifukwa chiyani makanda amakonda zofukula?
1. Khutiritsani "chikhumbo chofuna kuwononga" cha mwana
Mu psychology, anthu mwachibadwa amakhala ankhanza komanso owononga, ndipo chikhumbo cha "kuwononga" chimachokera ku chibadwa.Mwachitsanzo, masewera a pakompyuta ambiri amene anthu akuluakulu amakonda kusewera amakhala osasiyanitsidwa ndi kukangana ndi kuwukira.
"Chiwonongeko" ndi imodzi mwa njira zomwe makanda amayendera dziko lapansi.Makolo angapeze kuti pamene ana a zaka zapakati pa 2 akusewera ndi midadada yomangira, sakhalanso okhutira ndi zosangalatsa za midadada yomangira.Amakonda kukankhira pansi zomangira mobwerezabwereza.Kusintha kwa phokoso ndi kamangidwe ka zinthu zomwe zimayambitsidwa ndi kukankhira pansi zomangira kudzalimbikitsa mwanayo kuti azindikire mobwerezabwereza, ndikuwathandiza kupeza chisangalalo ndi kupambana.
Panthawi imeneyi, makanda anasonyeza chidwi kwambiri ndi zoseweretsa zotayika ndipo ankakonda kutsegula ndi kuzitembenuza.Makhalidwe "owononga" amenewa kwenikweni ndi chiwonetsero cha kukula kwa chidziwitso ndi kulingalira kwa makanda.Amamvetsetsa kapangidwe ka zinthu kudzera pakusokoneza mobwerezabwereza ndi kusonkhanitsa, ndikuwunikanso ubale womwe umayambitsa machitidwe.
Mmene chofukulacho chimagwirira ntchito ndi mphamvu zake zazikulu zowononga zimakhutiritsa “chilakolako cha chiwonongeko” cha mwanayo m’maganizo, ndipo “chilombo” chachikulu chimenechi chimene chingapange phokoso lobangula chingadzutsenso mosavuta chidwi cha mwanayo ndi kukopa maso ake.
2. Lingaliro la kulamulira ndi mphamvu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi chilakolako cha khanda
Mwanayo akayamba kudzimvera chisoni, amakonda kunena kuti "musatero" ndipo nthawi zambiri amamenyana ndi makolo ake.Nthawi zina, ngakhale atakhala wofunitsitsa kumvera makolo ake, ayenera kunena kuti “musatero” kaye.Panthawi imeneyi, mwanayo amakhulupirira kuti akhoza kuchita zonse monga makolo ake.Amafuna kuchita chilichonse payekha.Amayesa kudziyimira pawokha kudzera muzochita zina ndikuwonetsa kuthekera kwake kwa makolo ake.
Pokhala ndi malingaliro olamulira zinthu zozungulira, khandalo lidzadzimva kuti ndi munthu wodziimira payekha.Choncho, mu siteji ya kukhumba mphamvu kulamulira ndi mphamvu, khanda mosavuta kukopeka ndi mphamvu anasonyeza ndi excavator.Dr. Carla Marie Manly, katswiri wa zamaganizo wa ku America, akukhulupirira kuti chifukwa chimene makanda amakonda zoseŵeretsa za zinthu zazikulu kwambiri n’chakuti amamva kuti ali ndi mphamvu zotha kudziletsa komanso kuti ali ndi mphamvu chifukwa chokhala ndi timabaibulo tating’onoting’ono timeneti.
Ndipotu, makolo angapeze kuti makanda samangoganizira zofukula, monga ma dinosaurs, Monkey King, superheroes, mafumu a Disney, komanso amakonda zithunzi zamphamvu kapena zokongolazi.Makamaka akamalowa m'gawo lodziwikiratu (kawirikawiri pafupifupi zaka 4), khanda nthawi zambiri limasewera kapena kuganiza kuti iye ndi khalidwe lokondedwa kapena nyama.Chifukwa chakuti khandalo silinapeze chidziŵitso chokwanira ndi luso pausinkhu wofuna kudziimira paokha, ndipo kukula kwake kwakuthupi ndi maganizo sikuli kokhwima, sangachite zinthu zambiri.Ndipo zithunzi zosiyanasiyana muzojambula kapena zolemba zolemba zimatha kukwaniritsa zosowa zawo zamaganizidwe kuti zikhale zamphamvu komanso zazikulu, ndipo zimatha kubweretsa mwana kukhala wotetezeka.
Nthawi yotumiza: Sep-22-2022