Handizivi kana vabereki vakawana kuti kana mwana ava nemakore anenge maviri, anongoerekana anyanya kufarira zvekuchera.Kunyanya, mukomana angave asingakwanisi kuisa pfungwa pakutamba mitambo panguva dzakajairwa, asi kana angosangana nemucherechedzi ari kushanda mumugwagwa, maminitsi makumi maviri ekuona haana kukwana.Kwete izvozvo chete, asi vacheche vanodawo mainjiniya emotokari matoyi akadai seanochera.Kana vabereki vakavabvunza zvavanoda kuita kana vakura, vanogona kuwana mhinduro yekuti "mutyairi wekuchera".
Sei vacheche pasi rose vachiita sevanoda zvekuchera matongo?Pachiteshi chepeturu chekupera kwesvondo rino, mupepeti achataura nevabereki nezveruzivo rudiki rwuri seri kwe "mukuru".Mucheri anogonawo kubatsira vabereki kunzwisisa zviri nani zviri mukati memwana.
Sei vacheche vachida zvekuchera?
1. Gutsa "chishuwo chekuparadza" chemwana
Mupfungwa, vanhu vanongogara vane hasha uye vanoparadza, uye kuda "kuparadza" kunobva munjere.Semuenzaniso, mitambo yemavhidhiyo yakawanda inofarira kutamba nevanhu vakuru haiparadzaniswi nekurwisana uye kurwisa.
"Kuparadza" ndeimwe yenzira dzevacheche kuongorora nyika.Vabereki vanogona kuona kuti kana vana vanenge vane makore maviri okuberekwa vachitamba nemabhuroko ekuvaka, vanenge vasisagutsikane nekunakidzwa kwezvivharo zvekuvaka.Vanoda kudonhedza matombo ekuvaka kakawanda.Iko kunzwika uye kushanduka kwemaitiro ezvinhu zvinokonzerwa nekusundira pasi zvidhinha zvekuvaka zvinokurudzira mucheche kuti arambe achiona, uye kumugonesa kuwana pfungwa yekunakidzwa nekubudirira.
Munguva iyi, vacheche vakaratidza kufarira kukuru mumatoyi anobviswa uye vaifarira kuvhura nekuatenderedza.Aya maitiro "anoparadza" anotova kuratidzwa kwekukura kwekuziva uye kufunga kwevacheche.Vanonzwisisa kuumbwa kwezvinhu kuburikidza nekudzokororwa disassembly uye kusangana, uye kuongorora causal hukama hwemaitiro.
Mashandiro anoita mucheri uye simba rawo guru rokuparadza zvinogutsa “chishuvo chokuparadzwa” chomucheche mupfungwa, uye “chikara” chikuru ichi chinogona kuita mheremhere chinogonawo kumutsa kuda kuziva kwomucheche zviri nyore uye kukwezva maziso ake.
2. Pfungwa yekudzora uye simba rinoenderana nechido chemucheche
Pashure pokunge mwana akura, anozonyanya kuda kutaura kuti “musadaro” uye kazhinji kacho kurwisana nevabereki vake.Dzimwe nguva, kunyange kana achida kuteerera vabereki vake, anofanira kutanga ati “musadaro”.Panguva ino, mwana anotenda kuti anogona kuita zvose sevabereki vake.Anoda kuita zvinhu zvose ari oga.Anoedza kuwana rusununguko kuburikidza nezvimwe zviito uye kuratidza kugona kwake kuvabereki vake.
Nepfungwa yekudzora zvinhu zvakapoteredza, mucheche achanzwa kuti munhu akazvimirira.Nokudaro, muchikamu chekushuva pfungwa yekutonga uye simba, mucheche anokweverwa nyore nyore nesimba rinoratidzwa nemucheri.Dr. Carla Marie Manly, nyanzvi yepfungwa yokuAmerica, anodavira kuti chikonzero nei vacheche vachida zvitoyi zvezvinhu zvikuru zvikuru chingava chokuti vanonzwa pfungwa yakasimba yokudzora uye simba romunhu oga kupfurikidza nokuva neshanduro duku idzi.
Muchokwadi, vabereki vanogona kuona kuti vacheche havangofariri vacheri, senge dinosaurs, Monkey King, superheroes, Disney princess, asiwo vanoda mifananidzo iyi ine simba kana yakanaka.Kunyanya kana achipinda mudanho rekuzivikanwa (kazhinji akapoteredza zera re4), mwana anowanzotamba kana kufungidzira kuti iye munhu anodiwa kana mhuka.Nemhaka yokuti mucheche haana kuunganidza ruzivo rwakakwana uye unyanzvi pazera rokutsvaka kuzvimirira, uye kukura kwake mumuviri nomupfungwa hakusati kwakura, haakwanisi kuita zvinhu zvakawanda.Uye mifananidzo yakasiyana-siyana mumakatuni kana mabhuku ezvinyorwa anogona kungosangana nezvido zvavo zvepfungwa zvekuva akasimba uye makuru, uye anogona kuunza mwana pfungwa yekuchengeteka.
Nguva yekutumira: Sep-22-2022